Reclaiming his narrative: Charles’ story

In this piece for Black History Month, Charles talks about reclaiming his narrative as an LGBTQI refugee.
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As Black History Month ends, this year’s theme, Reclaiming Narratives, resonates powerfully for those whose stories have often been overshadowed or unheard. The theme encourages a celebration of resilience, diverse identities, and the reclaiming of stories long marginalised. Charles’ journey from West Africa to the UK—a path marked by power in identity, community, and radical hope—embodies these principles.

Forced to leave

Charles was born and raised in a French-speaking West Central African nation. In January 2020, facing life-threatening discrimination following the criminalisation of same-sex relationships, he made the heart-wrenching decision to leave everything he knew behind. “I needed to get away from the new laws, the family, and the place where I couldn’t live freely,” he recalls. Fleeing to the UK, he hoped to find a space where he could express his identity safely and authentically. “I needed to be somewhere I didn’t have to look over my shoulder to exist.” Yet, with this escape came the profound uncertainty of starting over in a foreign country, separated from family and friends, and facing a prolonged asylum process of two years.

Finding Micro Rainbow

Early in his journey, Migrant Help connected Charles with Micro Rainbow, an organisation supporting LGBTQI refugees. Micro Rainbow offered him safe housing and a much-needed sense of community. Through their social inclusion programmes, Charles joined workshops and mentorship sessions that prepared him for life beyond his asylum application. “I felt lucky,” he says, reflecting on his placement in Micro Rainbow’s safe housing during COVID-19. “Things had moved quickly for me, and I was able to be in a nice environment with decent people from my community.”

After being granted refugee status, Charles felt immense relief but faced the challenge of self-sufficiency in a new country. Facing homelessness and mentally draining hostels, Charles’ connections made through Micro Rainbow allowed him to find job interviews and eventually secured temporary work as a receptionist and administrative assistant at a law firm. The journey was tough, but he persevered, knowing that his work would lay the foundation for a stable life.

Two years ago, Charles returned to Micro Rainbow—this time as a team member. In his role, he oversees housing services, office operations, and special projects, giving back to the community that supported him. “I love what we do. The cause we are working for is noble; it is a chance to give back and make a lasting impact,” he shares.

Reclaiming his narrative

By reclaiming his narrative, Charles challenges misconceptions about LGBTQI individuals, the global majority, and refugees—not through confrontation but by living authentically. “Through the way I carry myself, I want to show that we are worthy, we are bright, we are beautiful inside and out,” he shares. For Charles, his identity as a Black LGBTQI refugee is a source of strength and pride, a “superpower” that he embraces. His goal is not to conform to preconceived notions but to demonstrate his value through his actions and achievements. “I refuse to be a victim,” he affirms.

Reflecting on his journey, Charles sees his work with Micro Rainbow as a way to “give back” and hopes to establish a legacy with Micro Rainbow ensuring there will always be quality support for others like him. His story is a testament to radical hope—the kind that fuels resilience and sustains those in the asylum process. His advice to LGBTQI asylum seekers and refugees:

“Be strong in your head, because this whole journey is a battle of the mind. And if you want to win, you must win in your head, first. By remaining positive and not giving up no matter what comes your way. Always remember that as long as there is life, there is hope.”

How you can support LGBTQI people fleeing persecution like Charles

Learn more about how Micro Rainbow supports LGBTQI refugees and asylum seekers to move on with their live by visiting the Moving On programme page.  

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